How to Bring it Up! Real Talk About Substance Abuse
Discussion is Important
Talking with teenagers can be a difficult task. Especially if you are discussing sensitive topics such as sex, house rules, or substance abuse. Fortunately, these topics don’t always need to be confrontational. For parents who take the time to develop healthy relationships with their kids, these types of conversations can be brought up during convenient opportunities and discussed calmly and in a way that allows the parent and child to build their relationship.
But How?
It is important to bond with your child by finding a common interest or hobby. In this way, you can show your child that you value their talents and interests and want to be a part of their life. This opens up opportunities to discuss more sensitive topics without your child feeling threatened. Marybeth Hicks, author and writer, has some great input on parenting and finding ways to bond with your child. Click here to watch her video.
Ask Questions
In the midst of bonding, running errands, or during commercial breaks, it is important to ask your child questions. Asking questions can often be more productive than a lecture. Some example questions are: “What do you think about alcohol?” “What do you know about substance abuse?” “Have there been any problems at your school with kids who use addictive substances?” It doesn’t matter where you are when you ask questions, but what does matter is bringing them up during non-conflict moments.
You can use current events, news headlines, examples at school, and even your own neighborhood to bring up the topic of substance abuse. Talk to your child about the consequences of people in the headlines who have abused drugs and alcohol. Ask them what they think and educate them as to the realities of drug and alcohol addiction. With plenty of resources available, you can give educated answers to your child’s questions about substance abuse.
For more ideas and information on how to talk to your child, visit drugfree.org.
